How to get him
back into your
Awright Sweetheart, you
came, you saw and you conquered HIM - the love of your life. But, after
all this flurry of activity, you lost him too. Still crazily in love, you
want him back in your life. Before you go through the magic charms of
casting a spell o'er him, again, put this question to yourself:
whatever has transpired between the two of you, can you pick up the
threads of your relationship from here and weave a new fabric?
your answer to the above question is in affirmative, lucky guy that.
all you have to do is take a deep breath, tell yourself that, 'I believe
in myself and my love', remember love means giving - ETERNALLY and
mug up these tricks by heart.
Trick # 01:
Caution: Be sure that he
doesn't double cross both of you or doesn't have designs over you.
Trick # 02:
Men are rational
creatures. So, you'll have to appeal to their logic. There's
absolutely no other way. Talk to him sensibly and rationally. Ask him
what made him drift apart? Consider his point of view, agree to it if
required then make him see your point of view. Convince him and win
him over to your side.
Talk don't argue. Raised voices can put him off. Let him win the battle - you win the
Trick # 03:
Don't put in too much mush. More than necessary tears too might spoil your
Trick # 04:
Back off ! He
shouldn't feel that you are crazy about him. The superiority complex
that develops within him in consequence of this might become a very
important factor that pulls him further away from you. So, maintain a
distance, dignity and a privacy of personality.
Don't stay too far. Keep the fire kindled.
Trick # 05:
Introduce him to the
green-eyed monster. Jealousy is the best indication of love. Try to
induce this emotion in him. Try out that dashing, suave, successful
software engineer or what have you. Be sure to parade your green eyed
guy in front of him. Let him know that you are in demand. Make him
Don't let him get the hint that you are giving undue favours to anybody.
That becomes a serious issue of infidelity for him.